Start working as a happy donkey

The division of labor in the workplace is meticulous and clear. Not everyone can become a phoenix as soon as they enter the workplace. More people will appear as a donkey when they first enter the workplace. Although we are so reckless and conceited, we come out of school and bump into another new strange environment, followed by confusion, anxiety, hesitation and helplessness about the future. All kinds of feelings come to our minds together, and the meaning is in the unspoken. But why can't we be happy donkeys?

When I walked out of the school and family greenhouse, I lost the care of my family and teachers. After truly entering the society, it is immediately faced with various pressures and tests of employment, work, career, and feelings, and suffering from the ravages of the cold current from reality. Sometimes I almost collapse in the face of difficulties and pressure. I once thought of giving up like this. Sometimes I often send out such feelings: Why is God so unfair to me, and torture me so cruelly! In fact, God treats everyone fairly. However, my constant complaints did not move the heaven, nor did they make a new turn in my life. Instead, I fell into a deeper confusion. In my most desperate time, I once thought that if I left the world, there would be no need to worry about it.

However, every day continues. When I clenched my teeth, climbed up from the place where I fell, dried my tears, wiped away the blood stains, and went on... Finally, I saw the beautiful scenery along the way, and enjoyed the happiness and happiness after I paid. I have learned how beautiful life is after suffering.

One day, when I read a story about the donkey that fell into the well, I suddenly realized how similar I was to the donkey that fell into the dry well. Here I will share this story with you. I hope you can appreciate the truth of life from it.

The story is like this: one day, a farmer's donkey accidentally fell into a dry well. The farmer racked his brains to save the donkey. But several hours later, the farmer tried many times, but still failed to think of a good way. The donkey was still crying in pain in the well. Finally, the farmer decided to give up. He thought the donkey was not worth the trouble to save it. The dry well had to be filled up. So the farmer invited his neighbors to help bury the donkey in the dry well to avoid its pain

When the donkey learned about his situation, he cried bitterly at first, and felt the end of his life. However, what was unexpected was that after a while the donkey was quiet. The farmer looked curiously at the bottom of the well, but the fact in front of him made him dumbfounded: when the mud shoveled into the well fell on the donkey's back, the donkey reacted with surprising calmness and rationality. Instead of letting the mud bury itself, it shook the mud aside, and then stood on the pile of mud shoveled in! Step down the soil. In this way, the donkey shook all the mud that everyone shoveled on it down to the bottom of the well, and then stood up. Soon, as the soil under his feet continued to rise, the donkey rose proudly to the wellhead, then jumped out of the wellhead in a surprised expression and ran away quickly!

Although this is a very simple story, it tells the truth of life. In fact, when we first entered the workplace, just like the donkey, we sometimes encountered many difficulties and tribulations in the journey of life, and inevitably fell into the dilemma of "dry well", and we would be dumped on us by all kinds of difficult "sand". At this time, we don't have to abandon ourselves and complain about others, but we should face it with a correct and positive attitude. In the "dry wells", we should not cry and cry. The secret we want to get out of these "dry wells" is to shake off the "sand" and then stand up!

In fact, all kinds of difficulties and setbacks we encounter in life are the "sand" that is imposed on us. Sometimes, we just see the negative side and expose the weak side in front of difficulties. We only think about why we are so unlucky, but not how to overcome difficulties. However, if we look at it from a different perspective, face it with a strong and confident attitude, and face it with a correct and positive attitude, difficulties are just stepping stones. As long as we shake them off with perseverance, stand up and step on the difficulties, then even if we fall to the deepest well, we can safely get out of trouble.

When faced with adversity, you will have different outcomes if you adopt different attitudes. If you choose to avoid passively, you will be buried by the difficult sand sooner or later, and lose the opportunity to get out of the predicament; If you choose to face it positively, you will surely stand on the sand of difficulties and gain opportunities in life.

Attitude is one of the factors that change destiny. If we face the difficulties with a positive and calm attitude, the potential is often hidden in the difficulties. Opportunity is not a coward who is fond of self-pity. Only the strong man who holds the throat of fate will get the opportunity of life. Everything depends on us. We must know how to let go of all gains and losses and move forward to the ideal.

Life is not a 100-meter race, but a long marathon. On the track of life, don't just see a little victory in front of you, but take a longer view. The most successful life is to win the final victory.