At work, when we face promotion and salary increase, we might as well give up the me-centered thinking: "Why not me", but spend more thinking on the people or things around us: "Why him?"
Enterprises are actually formed by numerous employees. The edges and corners of every employee, whether they are advantages or disadvantages in the eyes of others, are unique personality characteristics. However, if everyone gives up himself and smoothes the edges, it will lose the vitality of the enterprise. Therefore, in the workplace, we need to maintain moderate edges and corners.
Most of the time, when anger rises, we still have to find ways to suppress it. The problem is that sometimes in the face of explosive tension, it is difficult to try to ease and create a relaxed environment, and if it is not done properly, it will backfire.